BE POSITIVE: Don’t let negative friends or
relatives discourage you. They will try to take
your dream (“What makes you think you can do that?” or “Those things
never work.”) but what will they give you in return? Will they offer to send
your children to college for you? Will they send you on a cruise
around the
world?
BE COMMITTED: People today don’t seem to know what
that word means.
BE PERSISTENT: Don’t
waste time with people that are totally negative but don’t take them off
your list either. Call back every few weeks and let them know how well things
are going for you.
BE CONSISTENT: When
you get your game plan together, if you do the same thing over
and over, you can’t fail. Remember the old saying “Winners
BE PATIENT: It takes several months of consistent
effort before you can
really tell how
much you have accomplished. Think of yourself as a farmer.
When a farmer
plants his seeds he doesn’t get up the next morning expecting
a garden. Even
with the best sun, the best rain, the best weather conditions,
the best soil,
and lots of care, some of those seeds will sprout in a week,
some in a month
and some will never come up. Only time will tell with your
people also.
Some of your friends are just waiting to see how you do (we call
them the
“wait-and-see-ers”). If you stick around long enough, some of them
will eventually join you.
TRY NOT TO PREJUDGE:
Well, he makes a lot of money. He
won’t be interested.
He’s a sales type. She wouldn’t look at this,
etc. A mistake like that can cost you tens of
thousands of
dollars down the road. So, don’t prejudge, just get down the names.
This was the one thing that all leaders, with all different approaches,
had in common.
This was
something we could model, and the people could duplicate.
I learned
that if there really were any secret to the business, it was this: If you want
to reach a certain status, or certain goal, “You
have to become the kind of person who would reach that status or that goal”.
The talents are hidden within you, waiting to be unleashed. What you have to do
is let them come forth. You must eliminate all the negative and lack programming
you’ve been exposed to, almost since birth, and get back to your natural
essence. The doubts, fears, and uncertainties you have were learned. Now you
must unlearn them.
Do you
believe in universal laws?
If you’re
like most people, you do. You’ve come to believe that things are controlled by
cause and effect, and you understand that gravity, centrifugal force, and other
such laws are governed by immutable, unshakable principles. If you hit a
baseball, it will project forward. If you throw an object in the air, it will
fall back to earth. You must plant a seed and nurture it to grow a plant. Next
question...
Do you
believe the same universal laws govern your own life and business?
Now here’s
where it gets interesting. Most people believe these laws govern the
entire
universe, but things that happen in their own life are coincidence, chance, and luck.
Fascinating.
When they
see someone else get hit by a car, they think, “Why didn’t that dummy look where he was going?”
Yet if they fail to look before they step into the road and get hit by a car,
they attribute it to “bad luck.” They believe the moon, stars, planet rotation,
climates, nature, evolution, mathematics, and physics are all controlled by
universal laws. But when they get fired, have dysfunctional relationships,
develop addictions, or suffer bad business results, these things get explained
as bad luck, coincidence, tough breaks, and other rationalizations—all of which denote them as an
innocent victim.
Just how
often are you a victim? And just how innocent are you, really?
It’s a
fascinating subject. The lament I hear most from people in the business is “I
wish I could find more people like me.” Unfortunately, their problem is actually
quite the opposite. They have attracted people exactly like
them.
Network
Marketing works on the principle of delayed gratification. Invest in yourself
for a year or two to four years, and then reap the rewards for a lifetime.
Armando
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